Sooooooooo I got an engine out of a picnic doing 100k from seenath in the bamboo with a discount so I ran with it
I kinda regret the rebuild but at least now I have a fair knowledge behind the 1az motor and a big box of spares.
Things I have learnt:
Do not trust family members who say their mechanic good but only changes oil by them.
Do not go to a mechanic and choose convenience over peace of mind. Ill post pics later of the utter mess that was done.
So I have the van at home, running, I have to organize the thermostat as well as a rad cap.