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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby Soul Collector » December 23rd, 2012, 6:40 pm

Such a sad sad situation.... my condolences brother. I hope you all can come out of this strong...it will take much time and effort but just stick in there.

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Postby 16 cycles » December 23rd, 2012, 7:30 pm

Prayers be with you both....

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Postby ronsin1 » December 23rd, 2012, 7:30 pm

my condolences go out to you guys don't know what to say yes I am in shocked

both my children were born at GVM and my wife went through two C Sections there

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Postby TRAE » December 23rd, 2012, 7:39 pm

wow... soulya dis must be hard but allyuh hadda be strong, i dunno what i would do if it were me nah

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Postby VexXx Dogg » December 23rd, 2012, 7:52 pm

My deepest condolences to you and your family.

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Postby pioneer » December 23rd, 2012, 7:56 pm

condolences man

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby star scream » December 23rd, 2012, 8:03 pm

sorry for your loss bro, but as i tell people, its better you use the public institutions for child birth, in case of complications, you will be rushed there anyway.

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby Phone Surgeon » December 24th, 2012, 12:04 am

condolences damien and 200sx





star scream wrote:sorry for your loss bro, but as i tell people, its better you use the public institutions for child birth, in case of complications, you will be rushed there anyway.



a friend of mine recently give birth to a healthy baby in medical associates, about a month ago

this was after Grande hospital told her to come back in 3 days for an ultrasound because "yuh eh ready yuh..we eh know why u come here for"

although her private doctor had told her there was hardly any amniotic fluid left and the baby should be delivered immediately.

so she went medical associates and paid $14,000 to deliver the child/room for the night.

i wouldn't put more faith in public hospitals than private hospitals.

i always find that for healthcare in Trinidad, you hadda have some family or friend actively seeking your interest and making sure that whoever doing what, know what they doing.

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby cincuanta » December 24th, 2012, 12:27 am

This sparked some spirited discussion amongst the doctors and non-doctors in my family. Plus my cousin in Mt Hope for the last two days waiting to have a baby. Her water bag broke two days ago but she hasnt delivered yet. These type of things happen too frequently and we need specific legislation to hold people accountable. Only then will these instances be reduced. Stay strong for your family's sake.

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Postby rfari » December 24th, 2012, 1:34 am

Condolences to you both. RIP to the deceased.

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby DVSTT » December 24th, 2012, 2:42 am

sorry for your loss OP. Your sis looks like a woman I saw in margarita earlier this year, was this her?

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby 200sx » December 24th, 2012, 6:00 am

Some of my cousins just left! It's like we just can't come to terms with her lost!

But we continued our tradition which was just sitting around talking about anything which came to our minds! The floor became wet at times! ;(


Tanx again guys for all the support!

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Postby cinco » December 24th, 2012, 7:47 am

condolences man personally i find this has become a disturbing trend now
:( i almost lost a very good friend like this
and lost another about 6 years ago

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Postby sMASH » December 24th, 2012, 7:51 am

:(


hoss, it doh have much else to do except push through, only as time passes things would 'ease up'.

*tuner need to have some lawyers who willing to do sumting to turn this country around*

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby Conrad » December 24th, 2012, 9:04 am

ABA Trading LTD wrote:condolences damien and 200sx





star scream wrote:sorry for your loss bro, but as i tell people, its better you use the public institutions for child birth, in case of complications, you will be rushed there anyway.



a friend of mine recently give birth to a healthy baby in medical associates, about a month ago

this was after Grande hospital told her to come back in 3 days for an ultrasound because "yuh eh ready yuh..we eh know why u come here for"

although her private doctor had told her there was hardly any amniotic fluid left and the baby should be delivered immediately.

so she went medical associates and paid $14,000 to deliver the child/room for the night.

i wouldn't put more faith in public hospitals than private hospitals.

i always find that for healthcare in Trinidad, you hadda have some family or friend actively seeking your interest and making sure that whoever doing what, know what they doing.


Your friend's water bag burst and they told her come back in 3 days??? :?

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby bean_head » December 24th, 2012, 9:16 am

deepest condolences damien and 200sx... i was in shock when i read this yesterday. may her soul rest in peace... this is too too sad :(

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Postby 14lover » December 24th, 2012, 9:37 am

i only have a sister also and the thought of losing her.....
condolences to you and your family, really...
just pray to God for comfort and believe in him.

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Postby - Rovin's car audio - » December 24th, 2012, 10:45 am

condolences ....

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Postby TrinbagoMan » December 24th, 2012, 11:28 am

Condolences. Just goes to show the state of our medical facilties.

Your family should take some counselling. If your company has EAP services, you should utilize that. Alternatively there are some decent counselors locally. Dr Waveney Richards and Netsanet Amare are two names that come to mind. They both operate in woodbrook and specialize in family and trauma counselling.

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Postby luke skywalker » December 24th, 2012, 11:49 am

I hate these kind of stories where a man has a to lose a life to get a life.
My condolences...............

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby slick » December 24th, 2012, 11:57 am

Please accept my condolences 200sx and Damien. When I read this story it really hit me hard...brought me to tears...I can't imagine what you guys are going through right now. Please stay strong for the children's sake. May she rest in peace.

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Postby bluefete » December 24th, 2012, 12:33 pm

200sx and Damien: This is really, really hard. There is nothing anyone can say at this time that can ease the pain. My sincerest condolences and try to focus on one day at a time. The immediate future will not be easy.

In spite of all the heartbreak and sorrow, God's true purpose will be revealed to you in time.

In our human limitations, you just have to trust God and ask him for the strength to handle this situation.

In time, you will see how God's help came with a grace and understanding that you may not necessarily see right now.

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby 2311 » December 24th, 2012, 1:15 pm

I lost my sister in 08, I know how you feeling

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Postby SS_CONCEPTS » December 24th, 2012, 1:41 pm

Damien an Rossi my condolences to you guys
keep strong

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby netsket » December 24th, 2012, 2:17 pm

really sad. this has me really bothered since hearing about it. this morning me and some ppl were arguing about what passes for health care in this country and that nothing ever comes from it. that this same institution has a reputation for killing ppl. Nothing has come out of the last mother from Couva who died at San Fernando General after a c-section as well. the govt needs to hold someone accountable because ppl losing their lives because of negligence and doctors never go against their own. this even more sad now seeing that is part of the tuner family.

RIP chic.


bro be the best uncle u can be. I wish you the best. stay strong and give the hubby support as well. my prayers are with you and your family.


make dem pay!!!

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby Ted_v2 » December 24th, 2012, 6:10 pm

It's on crime watch

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Re: How do we move on? It was just two of us for my parents!

Postby Ted_v2 » December 24th, 2012, 6:28 pm

May she rest in peace

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Postby mango_chow » December 24th, 2012, 7:12 pm

My condolences to you Damien and Rossi. This is so hard and difficult to pass through. I can only imagine the pain you must be suffering. Go with God and stay strong. You have daughters and nieces to be there for. May God be with you and your family in this difficult time..

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Postby bonzo.specb » December 24th, 2012, 7:13 pm

:shock: Damn! Accept my condolences 200sx and Damien.

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Postby zorced » December 24th, 2012, 8:32 pm

sincere condolences guys.
strength and comfort to you and the family

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