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Unless you are marrying the SO's parents you should be fine. If you are... then you have bigger problems to deal with.sweet pee wrote:Hi everyone I would like to get your thoughts on how trinidad on a cultural level deals with eloping. Is it taboo? Can it be done here? Will you nenen beat you with a cocyea broom? lol anyway me and my SO are thinking of traveling abroad to get eloped so to avoid holding a big ceremony only for strangers we never met to come and eat out we food So what about eloping and having a better honeymoon sooo does anyone know how it can be done? Thanks xoxo
sweet pee wrote:Hi everyone I would like to get your thoughts on how trinidad on a cultural level deals with eloping. Is it taboo? Can it be done here? Will you nenen beat you with a cocyea broom? lol anyway me and my SO are thinking of traveling abroad to get eloped so to avoid holding a big ceremony only for strangers we never met to come and eat out we food So what about eloping and having a better honeymoon sooo does anyone know how it can be done? Thanks xoxo
88sins wrote:
There's a huge difference between getting married and keeping a wedding.
VexXx Dogg wrote:have a good relationship with your parents? suck it up and compromise
don't give a sheit about family? elope away
Brah... I don't think that's how eloping works. I think you just call that getting married.Country_Bookie wrote:I’d suggest you and your SO sit down with both sets of parents and discuss this before u make a decision like eloping.
desifemlove wrote:strangers who your parents wish to invite.
ok...but you both sound a bit spoilt, and a bit spineless too. have you discussed this with your parents? if they've said no, then suck it up. they will want to invite people too, and you such shitty social skills but to ignore or just say "hello" to these people whom your family possibly invited to see their son's special day?
ok this is rude. but then seems you're being a bit ungrateful here.
dougla_boy wrote:desifemlove wrote:strangers who your parents wish to invite.
ok...but you both sound a bit spoilt, and a bit spineless too. have you discussed this with your parents? if they've said no, then suck it up. they will want to invite people too, and you such shitty social skills but to ignore or just say "hello" to these people whom your family possibly invited to see their son's special day?
ok this is rude. but then seems you're being a bit ungrateful here.
why must they suck it up.... is they that have to spend their lives together, why they hadda compromise and let their parents invite people..... and how are they being ungrateful? its their choice....
desifemlove wrote:depends. parents often bring guests. but cool, get offended and pissy haha.
dougla_boy wrote:desifemlove wrote:depends. parents often bring guests. but cool, get offended and pissy haha.
again, it is their wedding,,,,wtf parents hadda do with it unless they paying the bill?
Phone Surgeon wrote:you just hadda go civil registry and register quietly
tell family after "aye we get married d other day, will do wedding later down the line"
never do the wedding later down the line.
win win
supercharged turbo wrote:You thinking too short term.What about if you have kids later on with your SO?Wouldn't you like your kids to have a good relationship with their grandparents without unnecessary tension in the background?OP sounding like meh ex