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Premchand1976 wrote:Hos, you more complicated than those ladies ???? Imagine what those chicks thinking about you ........seriously tho.....nobody is perfect, including yourself. Life isn't perfect, it is what you make of it with those you interact with each day. Birds of a feather, flock together ........simple.
matr1x wrote:*throws popcorn in the microwave *
This ched is gonna be gold...
Get tested before option 1. Bang it and roll. You are not her therapist. Banged jus twice, but rubbers'd up, Honestly, the sex was good and my emotions are tied to her the most.
Option 2: if in 3 months you enter gt, roll on. Ig girls will dump men to ensure they remain a hot item. If she gets famous, she will dump you for a Syrian. Or married you, and be crackin' a rasta on the side. I can actually see this happening 100% with her, u know them well. She is a social climber and thinks I'm richer than I am lolz. I must say having an ex gf (the one I broke up with last year) who is super rich, popular and also very attractive does wonders for your social status
Option 3: the contradiction will give you horrors.... it already does, she is fun but tiresome sometimes
Option 4: an ex and a divorcee? We got a winner folks! Your prize? Your ding dong in a jep nest. She's actually the most stable girl here despite how I described it. Logic tells me choose her.
Philippa wrote:So, without revealing too much personal details I'll describe my situation.
I'm late 20s, and was in a long term relationship with a girl for 7 years. We ended it mutually late 2017 after realizing we weren't in love. Fine, it was tough to lose her but I moved on. She wasn't my first gf, but longest for sure.
I phrased this as choosing a wife, but I'm hardly looking that long term yet, I just want to avoid wasting years in a meaningless relationship.
So luckily, either I'm better looking than I thought or just good with women but I've got 4 good prospects. I'll describe them as much as possible without giving hints to their real life identity. The options are listed in priority of who I want.
EDIT: Someone PM'd me asking about their race/religion and educational background.
- Incredibly gorgeous beauty (9.5/10), same age. But troubled, had an abusive past, was very promiscuous (said she lost count of guys she's made out with, but has had sex with 20+ men). Personality, extremely sweet, loving. I have lots of fun with her, she's a party and carnival girl and we had some wild fun times together. She shows how much she likes me and we get along so well. Negatives is that she's very much prone to depression and will sometimes disappear for a couple days. In this disappearance I'd later fine out she was either home in bed for days or liming with people she barely knows. This would bother me if we weren't casually dating. But in real life, I have by far the best time with her.
Race: Looks indo, but is half Syrian/Indo.
Religion: Muslim (not following obviously)
Education: UWI BSc
Job: Can't say as it's very specific, but it's for a friend's company and it's part time
- Also gorgeous but less so, maybe 8.5-9/10), very popular 20K+ follows on IG. Career oriented and going places. She's 2 years younger but very successful for her age. She'll probably be a house hold name in a few years given her aspirations. I like her a lot, we do have chemistry, but sometimes I find her boring. She isn't adventurous nor a party girl. We've never hooked up yet but she made her intentions clear many times. Also, not really promiscuous (I don't care about a girl's past as much as other men), but has had maybe 10 boyfriends in 10 years, dated a few guys in between. Sex with just 3 of them. Normal I'd say.
Education: UWI BSc, MSc
Job: Can't say as well as it's sort of very specific, but it's for a multinational and she is making a big bucks there.
- Pretty but not as pretty as the other 2, but when made up she's so bess and she has the best body of all, overall 8.5-9/10. Very popular too, whenever I'm with her she bounces friends and acquaintances. She's a tricky one as she's by far the smartest, but also kinda strict and not as fun. But she's a wild one, she is insatiable in bed and by far the best sex I've ever had. She is a weird one as she loves parties but hates small talk, loves sex and dancing, but hates joking around, loves comedies but hates sarcasm. I really think she might by slightly autistic (could explain her genius abilities, not exaggerating how smart she is) as she doesn't always catch things, but makes up by being cute too. Hard to assess long term potential, but sexually I'm extremely satisfied. I think she could be worth it, but I don't feel 100% relaxed around her. We have very different communication styles.
Race: 3/4 Indo, 1/8 White 1/8 Black (she likes to say 1/4 red).
Religion: Muslim parents but also atheist
Education: UWI BSc, PhD
Job: Head of a department in a state company, impressive for her age.
- This one is an ex who I reconnected with. She's a definite 8/10. She's getting divorced and wants to meet up. We broke up because when we hooked up in UWI both of us were also seeing other people, so she's more of an ex outside woman than an ex-gf. Lovely girl, gets me well and easy to be around. She isn't a wild party girl or a sex freak so that's a negative for me. But she's a very generous giving girl, will be a great mother and wife honestly. We're from very very similar backgrounds (aside from having the same degree), so we naturally get things about each other.
So that's it, there a few others I've had flings with but they're airheads, jus good to brush. All of the above know I'm dating them casually, but all have made their intentions that they want something long term with me.
Religion: Hindu (not following though)
Education: UWI BSc,
l33t2 wrote:OP you want us to say Option 1.
But let me tell you something I know a girl like this, it will always be about her and her needs. Your fun will have to on her terms and eventually, it will drive you nuts. I'm sure her looks are bess and it's what you're 'inlove' with.
My advice is go around with Option 1 exclusively, you'll see after 3-6 months her 'downs' will drive you nuts and depress you. Hey, at least you tried there bro.
Option 2 - I'd avoid. She sounds too stush.
Go around with Option 3, after Option 1 relationship falls apart. Does she know about Option 1? Either way, you say she's different or difficult to get along with. How so exactly? does she misinterpret you a lot? that's easy to fix bro. She sounds like a catch and out of all the girls above, I'm surprised she's single.
If it can't work with Option 3, go back to 4. 4 sounds like the easiest option of all, but least glamorous.
, Then when I found her she's happy as ever. I asked her about the text and she said she had a peeve with directions people give."uhm are you close to the stage or far from the stage? next time be more specific moron, I not walking around looking for you, I'm by the VIP bar now"