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maj. tom wrote:Stay away from single/divorced moms. They will manipulate your soul through her child.
But if you must... physical hardships. Gym with discipline, army drill. Break down his mind and rebuild it with iron.
He is desperately yearning for a strong man in his life to guide him and teach him discipline and inner strength through example. He is testing his boundaries. Normally an alpha male keeps his pack in line. A woman can never provide this to a boy.
OP get the child involved with something that they like doing , sports , hobbies, social clubs, music ect.Monk BANzai wrote:maj. tom wrote:Stay away from single/divorced moms. They will manipulate your soul through her child.
But if you must... physical hardships. Gym with discipline, army drill. Break down his mind and rebuild it with iron.
He is desperately yearning for a strong man in his life to guide him and teach him discipline and inner strength through example. He is testing his boundaries. Normally an alpha male keeps his pack in line. A woman can never provide this to a boy.
this has nothing to do with me seeing a single mother... she is a colleague who is nearing her wits end...
shake d livin wake d dead wrote:enroll him in the MILAT program...serious thing
Monk BANzai wrote:Interfacing with a single mother's (professional/middle class) who's young teen (14yrs) is becoming increasingly violent and disruptive at his school ("Prestige" name school)...What do you suggest to her? "take way his phone?" I'm asking cuz i can only offer advice from an outside/non parent perspective.
Keep the idiotic PNM/UNC/GOV'T comments to yourself.
They soft on boys but hard on men and very abusive.88sins wrote:Monk BANzai wrote:Interfacing with a single mother's (professional/middle class) who's young teen (14yrs) is becoming increasingly violent and disruptive at his school ("Prestige" name school)...What do you suggest to her? "take way his phone?" I'm asking cuz i can only offer advice from an outside/non parent perspective.
Keep the idiotic PNM/UNC/GOV'T comments to yourself.
I see nothing here that a professional cut arse can't fix. As mentioned, he was most likely a spoiled lil brat growing up, get away with everything short of murder, & now since he piss start to froth up he feel he's a big man, & now mammy eh kno what to do.
He might be getting some lil problems or motivation in school that pushing him to act a fool, but I doubt that if he giving she problems home like outright disobedience, back chat, etc. If the problem did not originate or stem from school, then is more likley than not youngster lie to heself & tell himself he's a big man & he could do whatever he want & she can't do him nuttn. For this, I suggest the most severe aspect of quality of life deprivation as punishment & corporal punishment as severe and as often as necessary. I could make some recommendations eh, but i kno ppl eh capable of going that drastic on they own kids. so look a easy one. might hadda hog tie him to finish it, but no scn. he go have the cut to match the tude.
Most women these days real soft on young children, when that is the time to show them there are unpleasant consequences to undesirable behavior, that's the period when it takes the least effort from the parent & the youngster most receptive & compliant.
wagonrunner wrote:when life is too nice, it's unappreciated.
let her make life lil tougher, ALL the comforts he enjoys as minor should be earned.
chores, respect, grades, etc are all contributors to his earning those comforts.
Les Bain wrote:... getting him to a counsellor to find out the root of the problem is a good start...
Root cause is his momadnj wrote:Les Bain wrote:... getting him to a counsellor to find out the root of the problem is a good start...
The only answer worth noting in this thread.
Monk BANzai wrote:wagonrunner wrote:when life is too nice, it's unappreciated.
let her make life lil tougher, ALL the comforts he enjoys as minor should be earned.
chores, respect, grades, etc are all contributors to his earning those comforts.
This. He prides himself, especially his hair..he got it cut yesterday. His electronic devices have been removed from him. back to old school Telco: you want to make a call? write down the number let me call him/her for you.
His upcoming "well planned US trip" is being removed from the table..no matter what his grades are going to be. He's been stripped of everything till the end of august.
The Grand father also stepping in to give some "old school"...lets see how it goes..
carluva wrote:Out of curiousity, of all the responses received to OPs first post, how many of those are from *actual* parents?
Pics of mom?zoom rader wrote:Root cause is his momadnj wrote:Les Bain wrote:... getting him to a counsellor to find out the root of the problem is a good start...
The only answer worth noting in this thread.
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