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88sins wrote:This kinda thing can be very easily weaponized if not done correctly, and has the potential to hang a lot of innocent fellas out to dry in the desert with a tarnished name that could possibly negatively impact them for the rest of their lives.
I don't have any problem with the issue of attempting to bring an end sexual harassment in the workplace or anywhere else, but it must be a well thought out process. And thinking about the greater good for the majority of the population is something local politicians have never been very good at. Now, I will admit, more than a few times I have dipped my pen in company ink. But the way I do it, I could never be accused of anything inappropriate, because in the office I am totally neutral and unbiased across the board with everyone including her. Now, if I choose to get together with a female employee she has to meet me outside the office hours (I not coming to pick her up anywhere) and even then, I make it a priority to be casually cordial while in public. When we leave and go somewhere private with us alone then the mood can relax a little. I keep it clandestine as a spy operation. Was dealing with one for 3 years and nobody had a clue, until we showed up in my brother wedding and it had one other guy from the company there.
I've seen in one instance a junior female set up a poor clueless senior sap to take a hit for sexual harassment in the workplace. She initiated the interaction, insisting that it be kept private, and after a few weeks when the boy get comfortable with her he slipped up and touched her backside in front of people. Same speed, she cried sexual harassment.
End result, he have a warning letter in his file, she get promoted to a position over him (she went and suck a directors coco for that), and proceeded to give the poor fella hell.
After that incident, I had to implement policy, thatbif two people working in the company and decide to fvck around together, then they are both obligated to disclose the nature of their relationship, including when it started and if there's a sexual component to it, and that the company bears no legal or financial responsibility for their actions. This is to be done in writing and on video, with both parties present simultaneously. Since initiating this policy I eh getting involved with no female employee, not personally or romantically.
Be careful fellas
Gladiator wrote:DMan7 wrote:Why is it that when new laws come out our basic instinct is to immediately think that certain people are going to use it for bad? Are we that bad as Trinidadians to have such little faith in our fellowman?
Pallie i have dealt with 3 cases of women falsely accusing men of sexual assault in the past 4 years. One case almost got a man with 35+ years service fired from his job the other made a company lose a $2Mil contract and put on a blacklist. Even though in both cases the men were innocent the damage caused was irreparable...
VII wrote:Yuh know how much sexy ting of all description I pick up over the years pulling aside and sweet talking driving and walking !! I think it's how the woman reacts should be your guide....if she's cool well make your move,a....if she's not keep driving or walking and if you persist then there could be a problem..
But then there could be a lot of mischievous charges too...you know how some chicks can be wicked..
They better be careful with this one.
Phone Surgeon wrote:VII wrote:Yuh know how much sexy ting of all description I pick up over the years pulling aside and sweet talking driving and walking !! I think it's how the woman reacts should be your guide....if she's cool well make your move,a....if she's not keep driving or walking and if you persist then there could be a problem..
But then there could be a lot of mischievous charges too...you know how some chicks can be wicked..
They better be careful with this one.
boy i know a crew of girls , all of them between 25-33
they does spend their $$$ to glam up their selves and go to the clubs to pick up man and get $$$$$
and them hoes does REAL get tru
it have one who get one man to buy a Tucson for her,(she give her mother it), and she get another man to buy a vezel for her (she does use that one) and have 2-3 fellas love off on her and happily sharing her .
so one of the fellas pick up a new girl,
you know the original girl, gone and make a report in the station how her man (the one who buy the tucson for her) beating her
she hit her head on the edge of a door and get a bruise and gone station and report him
and like she meet up a criminal police who wanna brush it ,or she give him a brush idk.
but super police calling the fella and threatening him, following him around, he using a unregistered digicel sim to make the calls
i know about this because the fella ask me to check who own the sim, and when i check it belong to an officer, we have his pictures, info etc. i know the two fellas who buy the vehicles, the crew of girls etc
so now this police like he wanna kidnap the fella or kill him or shoot up his business place or car, because this girl who have 2 man atleast, jealous one of her man horning her
woman evil yes
sMASH wrote:ey, it wasnt a settlement, it was a severance....
Phone Surgeon wrote:VII wrote:Yuh know how much sexy ting of all description I pick up over the years pulling aside and sweet talking driving and walking !! I think it's how the woman reacts should be your guide....if she's cool well make your move,a....if she's not keep driving or walking and if you persist then there could be a problem..
But then there could be a lot of mischievous charges too...you know how some chicks can be wicked..
They better be careful with this one.
boy i know a crew of girls , all of them between 25-33
they does spend their $$$ to glam up their selves and go to the clubs to pick up man and get $$$$$
and them hoes does REAL get tru
it have one who get one man to buy a Tucson for her,(she give her mother it), and she get another man to buy a vezel for her (she does use that one) and have 2-3 fellas love off on her and happily sharing her .
so one of the fellas pick up a new girl,
you know the original girl, gone and make a report in the station how her man (the one who buy the tucson for her) beating her
she hit her head on the edge of a door and get a bruise and gone station and report him
and like she meet up a criminal police who wanna brush it ,or she give him a brush idk.
but super police calling the fella and threatening him, following him around, he using a unregistered digicel sim to make the calls
i know about this because the fella ask me to check who own the sim, and when i check it belong to an officer, we have his pictures, info etc. i know the two fellas who buy the vehicles, the crew of girls etc
so now this police like he wanna kidnap the fella or kill him or shoot up his business place or car, because this girl who have 2 man atleast, jealous one of her man horning her
woman evil yes
VII wrote:Boy something similar happened to me,was trying to finish with a chick and she subsequently was trying to ruin my life,she turned from "I pray for your family yinno" to "Is war" in ah one !!
So she started to threaten to come home because she saw my address on a cheque book in my car.and eventually did but no one was home,so I contacted a police padna and he organized to have her intercepted for making threats and looking for confrontation by people house etc .
So they intercepted her in her civic in POS and took her to Besson street police station where Singh was in charge,she was drunk like a bat but no breathalyzer in those days,you know the gyal so good she chain up Singh crying and all kinda thing and de man start calling me and roughing me up!! I couldn't believe it !!
Man put me on the back foot but thankfully I'm no walk over and after the initial shock I told him as it is and kinda blasted him for letting a lil pretty piece of asss tie up his old experienced asss and asked him if that's how he treats victims as long as the perpetrators looked f@ckable ?
My padna called and said they can't hold her too long unless I have charges to press,and he said the officers warned her about going to my home or business, but palos lemme tell you something that dougla/Indian/reds was so sweet and sexy with the low round J-Lo ass and thigh gap the size of your fist,dem young police watching her as the victim and were all too happy to play white knight with the hope of being with her..
But my padna really assisted me and kinda got her to back off and Singh well he never called back,may he RIP.
Yeah boy those girls can be unreasonable and volatile when scorned..
I.came clean with wifey and she said I shoulda just told her and we woulda deal with it better...no secret no problem..listen nah the chick used to be threatening me that she would come.home and I had to leave home at all kinda hours to go and f@ck her and calm her down,pure duress !!! lol!!
But de ting was sweet bhai,but I just wanted to move on with my life and family in the right way and she was kinda like another undercover wife,learned a lot from that ..like what not to say or do in possible casual affairs and how to choose possible casual affairs partners to keep it casual..Phone Surgeon wrote:VII wrote:Yuh know how much sexy ting of all description I pick up over the years pulling aside and sweet talking driving and walking !! I think it's how the woman reacts should be your guide....if she's cool well make your move,a....if she's not keep driving or walking and if you persist then there could be a problem..
But then there could be a lot of mischievous charges too...you know how some chicks can be wicked..
They better be careful with this one.
boy i know a crew of girls , all of them between 25-33
they does spend their $$$ to glam up their selves and go to the clubs to pick up man and get $$$$$
and them hoes does REAL get tru
it have one who get one man to buy a Tucson for her,(she give her mother it), and she get another man to buy a vezel for her (she does use that one) and have 2-3 fellas love off on her and happily sharing her .
so one of the fellas pick up a new girl,
you know the original girl, gone and make a report in the station how her man (the one who buy the tucson for her) beating her
she hit her head on the edge of a door and get a bruise and gone station and report him
and like she meet up a criminal police who wanna brush it ,or she give him a brush idk.
but super police calling the fella and threatening him, following him around, he using a unregistered digicel sim to make the calls
i know about this because the fella ask me to check who own the sim, and when i check it belong to an officer, we have his pictures, info etc. i know the two fellas who buy the vehicles, the crew of girls etc
so now this police like he wanna kidnap the fella or kill him or shoot up his business place or car, because this girl who have 2 man atleast, jealous one of her man horning her
woman evil yes
j.o.e wrote:Always maintain control
j.o.e wrote:Glad you learned your lesson. Always maintain control, don’t give a side chick any power. Let her know wifey will always side with you. When there is no fear there can be no intimidation.
j.o.e wrote:VII wrote:Boy something similar happened to me,was trying to finish with a chick and she subsequently was trying to ruin my life,she turned from "I pray for your family yinno" to "Is war" in ah one !!
So she started to threaten to come home because she saw my address on a cheque book in my car.and eventually did but no one was home,so I contacted a police padna and he organized to have her intercepted for making threats and looking for confrontation by people house etc .
So they intercepted her in her civic in POS and took her to Besson street police station where Singh was in charge,she was drunk like a bat but no breathalyzer in those days,you know the gyal so good she chain up Singh crying and all kinda thing and de man start calling me and roughing me up!! I couldn't believe it !!
Man put me on the back foot but thankfully I'm no walk over and after the initial shock I told him as it is and kinda blasted him for letting a lil pretty piece of asss tie up his old experienced asss and asked him if that's how he treats victims as long as the perpetrators looked f@ckable ?
My padna called and said they can't hold her too long unless I have charges to press,and he said the officers warned her about going to my home or business, but palos lemme tell you something that dougla/Indian/reds was so sweet and sexy with the low round J-Lo ass and thigh gap the size of your fist,dem young police watching her as the victim and were all too happy to play white knight with the hope of being with her..
But my padna really assisted me and kinda got her to back off and Singh well he never called back,may he RIP.
Yeah boy those girls can be unreasonable and volatile when scorned..
I.came clean with wifey and she said I shoulda just told her and we woulda deal with it better...no secret no problem..listen nah the chick used to be threatening me that she would come.home and I had to leave home at all kinda hours to go and f@ck her and calm her down,pure duress !!! lol!!
But de ting was sweet bhai,but I just wanted to move on with my life and family in the right way and she was kinda like another undercover wife,learned a lot from that ..like what not to say or do in possible casual affairs and how to choose possible casual affairs partners to keep it casual..Phone Surgeon wrote:VII wrote:Yuh know how much sexy ting of all description I pick up over the years pulling aside and sweet talking driving and walking !! I think it's how the woman reacts should be your guide....if she's cool well make your move,a....if she's not keep driving or walking and if you persist then there could be a problem..
But then there could be a lot of mischievous charges too...you know how some chicks can be wicked..
They better be careful with this one.
boy i know a crew of girls , all of them between 25-33
they does spend their $$$ to glam up their selves and go to the clubs to pick up man and get $$$$$
and them hoes does REAL get tru
it have one who get one man to buy a Tucson for her,(she give her mother it), and she get another man to buy a vezel for her (she does use that one) and have 2-3 fellas love off on her and happily sharing her .
so one of the fellas pick up a new girl,
you know the original girl, gone and make a report in the station how her man (the one who buy the tucson for her) beating her
she hit her head on the edge of a door and get a bruise and gone station and report him
and like she meet up a criminal police who wanna brush it ,or she give him a brush idk.
but super police calling the fella and threatening him, following him around, he using a unregistered digicel sim to make the calls
i know about this because the fella ask me to check who own the sim, and when i check it belong to an officer, we have his pictures, info etc. i know the two fellas who buy the vehicles, the crew of girls etc
so now this police like he wanna kidnap the fella or kill him or shoot up his business place or car, because this girl who have 2 man atleast, jealous one of her man horning her
woman evil yes
Glad you learned your lesson. Always maintain control, don’t give a side chick any power. Let her know wifey will always side with you. When there is no fear there can be no intimidation.
88sins wrote:j.o.e wrote:Glad you learned your lesson. Always maintain control, don’t give a side chick any power. Let her know wifey will always side with you. When there is no fear there can be no intimidation.
Someone get this man a beer
This is why I let the side piece know up front
1-I not leaving wifey,
2-wifey not leaving me
3-you are the side piece, know your role and play your position, otherwise you will have no position.
Yeah, I it sounding brave to say that I know wifey not leaving, but it have reasons why I could say that because of the history between us and things I know she did for me in d past. We been together for just over 2 decades now, and during that time we been through hell and high water, damn near poverty and well beyond wealth, good health and life threatening illness, and all my transgressions, and we dealt with it all. And she knows full well, I don't sleep out, and that home and family first, everything else take a number and wait your turn, including but not limited to side b!+ches.
One time, married girl I was playing d ass with decided she would tell wifey about us, hoping wifey and I go done and she could slide in. Imagine her surprise when wifey tell her she knows about her, and is ok, but she not playing her position so she ain't have long again.
Wifey lemme kno she came by, and as the side piece showed that she wanted to put everything out in the open at least on my side, I decided to send she husband a long video with her and me at play and call him and let him know exactly what going on with he wife, and for how long, and what she said was her reasons for her actions. He ended up getting her preggers, and so I thought that was the end of that.
That gyul didn't bother me for 5 months, and one day out of the blue she come in my place of business, to say she sorry and that she knows she was wrong, and that she want to resume the relationship. At this point, she belly showing. When I tell her that what she wants is not possible and that she was already replaced she hang her head and left. Kinda felt bad for her a little, she looked like she didn't want to be with the man again and she studying her options very limited. But what else could she have expected? I only play the cards she deal me, she just didn't know I plaited the deck before she started dealing.
Anyway, the whole idea of eliminating sexual harassment in general is not a bad thing, but I hope that whatever they come up with is properly thought out, including measures to restore the dignity and character of the accused if harrassment claims against them are eventually found to be without merit.
Typical when you have a wifeeliteauto wrote:Read this thread and now I'm feeling for KFC
redmanjp wrote:i imagine the staring part applies to voyeurism (which the law is going to cover) where a female is undressing and u gaping at she through the window
VII wrote:Boy something similar happened to me,was trying to finish with a chick and she subsequently was trying to ruin my life,she turned from "I pray for your family yinno" to "Is war" in ah one !!
So she started to threaten to come home because she saw my address on a cheque book in my car.and eventually did but no one was home,so I contacted a police padna and he organized to have her intercepted for making threats and looking for confrontation by people house etc .
So they intercepted her in her civic in POS and took her to Besson street police station where Singh was in charge,she was drunk like a bat but no breathalyzer in those days,you know the gyal so good she chain up Singh crying and all kinda thing and de man start calling me and roughing me up!! I couldn't believe it !!
Man put me on the back foot but thankfully I'm no walk over and after the initial shock I told him as it is and kinda blasted him for letting a lil pretty piece of asss tie up his old experienced asss and asked him if that's how he treats victims as long as the perpetrators looked f@ckable ?
My padna called and said they can't hold her too long unless I have charges to press,and he said the officers warned her about going to my home or business, but palos lemme tell you something that dougla/Indian/reds was so sweet and sexy with the low round J-Lo ass and thigh gap the size of your fist,dem young police watching her as the victim and were all too happy to play white knight with the hope of being with her..
But my padna really assisted me and kinda got her to back off and Singh well he never called back,may he RIP.
Yeah boy those girls can be unreasonable and volatile when scorned..
I.came clean with wifey and she said I shoulda just told her and we woulda deal with it better...no secret no problem..listen nah the chick used to be threatening me that she would come.home and I had to leave home at all kinda hours to go and f@ck her and calm her down,pure duress !!! lol!!
But de ting was sweet bhai,but I just wanted to move on with my life and family in the right way and she was kinda like another undercover wife,learned a lot from that ..like what not to say or do in possible casual affairs and how to choose possible casual affairs partners to keep it casual..Phone Surgeon wrote:VII wrote:Yuh know how much sexy ting of all description I pick up over the years pulling aside and sweet talking driving and walking !! I think it's how the woman reacts should be your guide....if she's cool well make your move,a....if she's not keep driving or walking and if you persist then there could be a problem..
But then there could be a lot of mischievous charges too...you know how some chicks can be wicked..
They better be careful with this one.
boy i know a crew of girls , all of them between 25-33
they does spend their $$$ to glam up their selves and go to the clubs to pick up man and get $$$$$
and them hoes does REAL get tru
it have one who get one man to buy a Tucson for her,(she give her mother it), and she get another man to buy a vezel for her (she does use that one) and have 2-3 fellas love off on her and happily sharing her .
so one of the fellas pick up a new girl,
you know the original girl, gone and make a report in the station how her man (the one who buy the tucson for her) beating her
she hit her head on the edge of a door and get a bruise and gone station and report him
and like she meet up a criminal police who wanna brush it ,or she give him a brush idk.
but super police calling the fella and threatening him, following him around, he using a unregistered digicel sim to make the calls
i know about this because the fella ask me to check who own the sim, and when i check it belong to an officer, we have his pictures, info etc. i know the two fellas who buy the vehicles, the crew of girls etc
so now this police like he wanna kidnap the fella or kill him or shoot up his business place or car, because this girl who have 2 man atleast, jealous one of her man horning her
woman evil yes
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