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Redman wrote:Im just describing the reality as it exists.
And with out wanting to sound harsh-if there are too many Chem Eng- she should retrain or look elsewhere for work.
Multiple people I know have done so and made it work for them.She isnt the only one with a useless degree.
A degree isnt a garantee of anything.
And no she does not HAVE to take a 4k job-she is free to find some one to pay here
Its easy to conjure up some sinister conspiracy instead of taking a hard look at how you as a person arrived where you are.
Good workers get treated better as they are an asset to the co.
Good employers get better service and performance from employees BECAUSE they treat people better.
Yes there are exceptions on both sides-but that is life.
Redman wrote:It isn't supposed to be easy.
Bills piling up equates to all of us....
I'm saying that she isn't stupid....and she should actively seek to improve her situation...at 30 she has another 60 odd years of life....if she wants to anchor herself to the Chem Eng career ....then adapt to the situation and grind it out.
I expect workers to be willing to accept that in 2019 you have to be adaptive and aggressive.
Success is hard work.
Redman wrote:
I expect workers to be willing to accept that in 2019 you have to be adaptive and aggressive.
Success is hard work.
Slartibartfast wrote:Redman wrote:It isn't supposed to be easy.
Bills piling up equates to all of us....
I'm saying that she isn't stupid....and she should actively seek to improve her situation...at 30 she has another 60 odd years of life....if she wants to anchor herself to the Chem Eng career ....then adapt to the situation and grind it out.
I expect workers to be willing to accept that in 2019 you have to be adaptive and aggressive.
Success is hard work.
I mean, let's pretend you are her employer as she is currently retraining herself, working a second job/ side hussle, constantly spending time looking for other jobs and is now coming to terms with the fact that you are making twice as much as her off of the work that she is putting out.
How do you expect her perfomance as your employee to be compared to someone that is able to make a living of that job alone, not looking for another job (knowing that their position is safe once their performance remains good), does not have to work a second job/side hustle part time and does not have to look at trying to retrain themselves? (I know jobs like this no longer exist, just trying to paint a picture for you to understand)
Do you expect person 1 and person 2's performance to be the same (assume all else is equal)?
Granted. You are well within your right to do all of that and I do not disagree with anything you said but you still didn't answer the question.Redman wrote:Slartibartfast wrote:Redman wrote:It isn't supposed to be easy.
Bills piling up equates to all of us....
I'm saying that she isn't stupid....and she should actively seek to improve her situation...at 30 she has another 60 odd years of life....if she wants to anchor herself to the Chem Eng career ....then adapt to the situation and grind it out.
I expect workers to be willing to accept that in 2019 you have to be adaptive and aggressive.
Success is hard work.
I mean, let's pretend you are her employer as she is currently retraining herself, working a second job/ side hussle, constantly spending time looking for other jobs and is now coming to terms with the fact that you are making twice as much as her off of the work that she is putting out.
How do you expect her perfomance as your employee to be compared to someone that is able to make a living of that job alone, not looking for another job (knowing that their position is safe once their performance remains good), does not have to work a second job/side hustle part time and does not have to look at trying to retrain themselves? (I know jobs like this no longer exist, just trying to paint a picture for you to understand)
Do you expect person 1 and person 2's performance to be the same (assume all else is equal)?
If I'm the employer....I would have taken the risk and responsibilities of setting up and running the business
When our customers don't pay I pay her.
When we need to restock....it's my over draft secured by my jockeyshorts.
When the kidnapping...it's my daughter....not hers that probably is the target .
She goes home or wherever,while I deal with the 24/7 demands.of running the operation.
I fck well deserve the profit and the fruit of my risk taking.
She has the security of a paycheck.
I have the benefits of ownership.
Both pay their respective dividends.
As to her dealing with her life situation....that depends on her attitude and performance.
Is she worth it?
If she is then she will get as much help as I can give.
If she isn't then I have nothing to do and she will leave soon.
Redman wrote:I expect that both will perform the same ..am I not paying the same wage to both?
How do you expect her perfomance as your employee to be compared to someone that is able to make a living of that job alone
Redman wrote:You indicated two people working the same job.
Or I thought that's what you meant.How do you expect her perfomance as your employee to be compared to someone that is able to make a living of that job alone
So same job
Same salary
Same expectation.
That said we make accommodations all the time based on the person's needs.
We are not beasts....most employer s are not.
But the employee has to recognize that there attitude and disposition are a massive part of how they are dealt with at the workplace.
Trolling is for children
Redman wrote:It cant be surprising.
But its up to an individual to make the right choices so as not to end up with a crap job.
So if a job is paying a wage that is not sufficient-based on the job itself...then no one would take it.
Cool story bro, sounds like you grew up in the 90's. Luck, chance and who you know matters more than hard work and dedication now. Hard work and dedication greatly increases you chances though so I try my best and encourage others to do the same. Plenty people out there still understand this but sadly some people don't and give up trying.Ben_spanna wrote:Seen it many times right where I am.
2 people with similar background, both with almost no responsibilities, same pay, same hours.
One had his mind made up, does what he can to save and put aside money for his future, other idiot cant wait for a Friday afternoon to go out and buy a bess sneakers and clothing, then comes next week crying how the management too wicked and dem dont pay he enough!
Guess what! in the end their futures turn out very different, one takes responsibility for his actions and does what he can.. buys his own car eventually, goes to after school classes and betters himself and makes a future.
The other "FOOL" with his blame everyone else attitude still catching his ass, complaining about how expensive everything is now, doesn't own anything and is probably still out there working to no end in sight , BUT he still has the newest phone and sneakers!
Redman wrote:Nothing you describe is new,uncommon or unique to Trinidad.
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