What is your take on GF/BF talking to the opposite sex?

[ismithx]

Frank hada put his foot down. He has to ask his wife who's feelings are more important to her, Frank's or the contractor's? Tell the wife she can't have both. If she decides she wants the contractor then Frank really didn't stand a chance and it's best they file for divorce uno timo. If she says Frank and their kids and family matter more, Frank needs to borrow the wife's phone and give the contractor a call and tell him dont contact that number anymore, and that he is no longer on the job as well as no longer allowed on his property under any circumstances. And he has to tell the wife that she must cut all ties with him. The contractor knows they are married and still trying a thing so in this case he has a right to stop her from contacting the contractor for the good of their marriage. If she genuinely cares about him she would have no problem with this as well. If she has a problem with this then she has to choose the contractor.

No shouting, no real confrontation or fighting, but he have to put his foot down. I have no problem with my gf to another man but she can't be flirting with anyone else and she can't go out with a next man alone (unless it's just for lunch in a food court with a work colleague or something). Exceptions would be for family and close friends of course.

Co signed

[The Paleontologist]

Lanate

[kjaglal76v2]

OP are u in a wheelchair??

:lol:

[TrinbagoMan]

sounds all good and well ,but Fank really loves his wife and knows this guy just want to hit it when he wants and go back to his wife ......how does Frank make his wife see this guy for what he really is?, He even told me he will give her everything if there was a divorce, but knowing him he will trip if he sees this other man enjoying his spoils..........I already told him he is reading too much into it and he should just allow the situation to die on its own,,,,well hopefully

Does Frank always refer to himself in third person, and talk to himself?

[cinco]

question for you guys on this one, I have this "friend" and this is the case,Lets call the guy frank..
Frank has been with his wife for 18 years, and decided last year to do some remodelling on their home, Frank's wife is a stay at home mom and pretty good..not to mention she is smoking hot.
Now here's where the issue is, one of the sub-contractors has a thing for Frank's wife, it started off as sending messages about house related issues as Frank work's full-time she took over , seeing about all the running around etc.
Now with in say the last 2-3 months they send each other messages all day from as early as 4am to sometimes 10pm, once frank is around she tries to hide this saying its her sister or friend, but frank being the smart guy he is gets up every night when she's asleep and reads her messages, her messages appear to have him uncomfortable as she flirts to get her work done but Frank is not comfortable with this and spoke to her numerous times already and its always "there's nothing going on"....the guy tells her all the time how he feels and he really like her. Thing is he is married and his wife just had their second kid.
Frank trusts his wife but it seems this guy is starting to wear her down, she even says she feels sorry for him and likes to talk to him and its harmless, but Frank knows his intention.......What do you guys suggest Frank do?....should he just monitor the situation and see where it goes, call the guy's wife and tell her the scene,,,,,,buss a slap on Frank's wife...etc

frank shud sell d wife to d contractor she done goin an horn him might as well make it worth his while

[eliteauto]

if the contractor doing good work Frank should play it cool, when the final bill come, subtract something for the wife's value and put her in the contractor's tool kit when he leaving, nice house = new birds

[Cantmis]

Btw pics of mrs frank

[Spitfir3]

Franklin has 3 options
1.Lanate
2.Noose
3.cuff it out....if done right he will get roti after

oh and Frank needs to stop being an imps or he WILL be taken advantage of..he could always take the small man route and text mr contractor using his wife's phone and tell him fuq way

[rollingstock]

Lollaboy ah mean Frank most likely getting horn already.

If he isn't it's coming, the problem there is if she has already started to lie and keep things from lollaboy ah mean Frank then she already have ulterior motives. There would be no reason to lie about the messages if she wasn't already harboring a guilty mind.

lollaboy ah mean Franks needs to make the Mrs 'disappear' *wink* *wink*
It's doesn't make sense giving up at least half of what you worked hard for.

[lalloboy101]

if the contractor doing good work Frank should play it cool, when the final bill come, subtract something for the wife's value and put her in the contractor's tool kit when he leaving, nice house = new birds

See thats just the thing, his scope has finished close to 2 weeks now, but he wants to stick around so he is doing additional work at no cost, pretty much a reason to stick around.
He even went as far as cleaning the neighbours lot ands around the yard and even asks Mrs. Frank what else is there to be done as he is running out of excuses to stick around (trying not to raise Frank's suspicions)

[cinco]

if the contractor doing good work Frank should play it cool, when the final bill come, subtract something for the wife's value and put her in the contractor's tool kit when he leaving, nice house = new birds

See thats just the thing, his scope has finished close to 2 weeks now, but he wants to stick around so he is doing additional work at no cost, pretty much a reason to stick around.
He even went as far as cleaning the neighbours lot ands around the yard and even asks Mrs. Frank what else is there to be done as he is running out of excuses to stick around (trying not to raise Frank's suspicions)

he done boolin ms frank
tell Frank to smell d contractor d1ck when he get home to see if he can smell poo-c on it

[dougla_boy]

hoss, is adults, why u hadda tell she doh talk to he? tell she udfr and hsmc......an doh be reading no messages dan, dem eh go put in words wah dey do on yuh bed ahready.....

[*$kїđž!™]

Franks position is real....I have see outside ppl just come into a married couple business and mash them up just like that.......Divorce rates are high.......MOrals are out the door....

Frank would just have to rally it out cause if he ask hius wife to stop I highly doubt she will and she prob likes the extra attention she is getting.......

Frank could prob tell her that he prefers to get another contractor and get rid of this one and then see if she still messages him........

[lalloboy101]

Lollaboy ah mean Frank most likely getting horn already.

If he isn't it's coming, the problem there is if she has already started to lie and keep things from lollaboy ah mean Frank then she already have ulterior motives. There would be no reason to lie about the messages if she wasn't already harboring a guilty mind.

lollaboy ah mean Franks needs to make the Mrs 'disappear' *wink* *wink*
It's doesn't make sense giving up at least half of what you worked hard for.

Frank finds it difficult to accept that something like this can happen as he never had reason to not trust her in the past. Strange thing Frank said is that a lot of men has hit on her over the years and nothing. This contractor does not even fit into the category that she finds appealing

[rollingstock]

Frank believes that there was nothing. Women are sneaky conniving creatures.

Is either Frank learn to just accept a horn which is just a physical thing or he die a jealous lout.

[j.o.e]

Contractor already brushing the wife.... Frank is a real soft man to be taking a horn under his nose.

[lalloboy101]

Franks position is real....I have see outside ppl just come into a married couple business and mash them up just like that.......Divorce rates are high.......MOrals are out the door....

Frank would just have to rally it out cause if he ask hius wife to stop I highly doubt she will and she prob likes the extra attention she is getting.......

Frank could prob tell her that he prefers to get another contractor and get rid of this one and then see if she still messages him........

Thats the other thing, she told him she likes the attention she get, as Frank works from 5am and usually gets home by 7pm. By that time he is dog tired, jus eats and by 8, he is usually asleep. That's where this guys comes in and tells her all the nice things Frank does not.
I told him already about that, she accused him of taking her for granted assuming she would always be there.
Frank is not the most romantic guy in the world but he expresses his feelings openly and tells her where he stands.

[*$kїđž!™]

Boy that attention thing that woman like is the key factor that mr contractor playing on to woe her.....

It now depends on franks wife...if she would take the bait....or would be strong enough to put a hold or stop to it

Frank just has to talk to her about it and work there way through it.......

It may end up as its either she in it with the contractor of she out of it.......

If frank is away so long and goes to bed by 8 well...I think mr contractor would be around for a long while.....

[M.E.C.P]

She's already hiding stuff, which means she's doing something she should not be, whether it be flirting or other.
Things like this will happen ineivitably, its up to the party involved to make the right choice, frank should at least sit his wife down and let her knw how he feels in a calm, loving, yet firm manner.
As an adult i don't believe in telling my significant other what choice they should make, its up to you to respond accordingly to the choice the other party makes.

Personally in keeping with the title of the thread, i dont stop my significant other from talking to guys, nor do i have a problem, as members of opposite sexes we will flirt, i knw i do with my girlfriends, and so does my girl with her guy friends, we are not married however, just dating for about 6 years, i do believe however once marriage is instituted that kind of behaviour should cease.
Just my opinion.

[*$kїđž!™]

She's already hiding stuff, which means she's doing something she should not be, whether it be flirting or other.
Things like this will happen ineivitably, its up to the party involved to make the right choice, Just my opinion.

Yes thats it......up to the parties involved to know the difference bout right and wrong and know where to draw the line......

[eyeballz]

Frank wife eh bullin de contractor yet, if was so, the contractor wouldn't be still coming around and "beating round the bush" he'd just be beating the bush.

Frank wife love him if she eh give the contractor it yet so frank should consider that. But Frank is ah puh-c. And love won't stop the horn forever.

My advice to frank is don't even bother arguing or asking about the contractor. She'd only get defensive and that'll also mean the little time that she gets to see him is argument.

If he wants his sexy wife back he should utilize the weekends or any time he has to sweet talk and court his wife all over again. once upon a time he did chain up she head to get the puh-c too and he gt, so he can do it again. but that alone eh go work.

Frank too safe. she sure he working and eh go horn she so she comfortable. Frank needs to change that.

Play two sides if he wants to win.

[Slartibartfast]

Yup that's why frank hada lay out all he cards on the table and let her choose. Once she chooses they move forward together or apart. But leaving it and hoping it will die down is the dumbest thing he can do. What if it happens again? He has to set a precedence now.

[lalloboy101]

Boy that attention thing that woman like is the key factor that mr contractor playing on to woe her.....

It now depends on franks wife...if she would take the bait....or would be strong enough to put a hold or stop to it

Frank just has to talk to her about it and work there way through it.......

It may end up as its either she in it with the contractor of she out of it.......

If frank is away so long and goes to bed by 8 well...I think mr contractor would be around for a long while.....

Frank even said that Mrs. Frank gave the contractor one the gate keys but refuses to ask for it back, meanwhile she has the other and poor Frank has to jump over the fence to gain access to his property.
In addition to this he disregards frank's input into the project and treat the homes like it is.
Imagine the other day frank was going to lock up his property and the Mrs. said if its no problem you can go ahead, thats right, he has to ask for permission to lock up his property while the other guy can come and go as he wishes.
The contractor even went as far as telling other sub-contractors who he sees as a threat to not bother coming back to work there that he would handle it.

[de_dougla_smurf]

That's why u shouldn't put phones in the kitchen.

And frank should glad he getting help in and around d house...

[Slartibartfast]

Boy that attention thing that woman like is the key factor that mr contractor playing on to woe her.....

It now depends on franks wife...if she would take the bait....or would be strong enough to put a hold or stop to it

Frank just has to talk to her about it and work there way through it.......

It may end up as its either she in it with the contractor of she out of it.......

If frank is away so long and goes to bed by 8 well...I think mr contractor would be around for a long while.....

Frank even said that Mrs. Frank gave the contractor one the gate keys but refuses to ask for it back, meanwhile she has the other and poor Frank has to jump over the fence to gain access to his property.
In addition to this he disregards frank's input into the project and treat the homes like it is.
Imagine the other day frank was going to lock up his property and the Mrs. said if its no problem you can go ahead, thats right, he has to ask for permission to lock up his property while the other guy can come and go as he wishes.
The contractor even went as far as telling other sub-contractors who he sees as a threat to not bother coming back to work there that he would handle it.

Frank hada grow a pair

[eliteauto]

I read where the contractor doing free work.... pics of Mrs Frank?

btw free wuk= noonoose sniffing, Mrs Frank eh leggo the cut yet, she's an OG Triple OG, Frank should hit her a plan for a swimming pool and ask her WWGD?

[Spitfir3]

at this point is better Frank take the horn and wait for the contractor to stop biggin she up which he will once the nanny start to run slack, she will crawl back to him once the attention stops..........in his favor he could also get Mrs Frank to chain up said contractor to do more "free wuk"

OR

or he could stop being a little b!tch put his foot down and do somn, i ain't saying go all wheelchair on her ass but you know assert your dominance

[supercharged turbo]

Frank needs to lay off the estrogen patches

[shogun]

If the first "man" she has a relationship (in a work capacity) that throws a few lil sweet words her way, have her relationship in this much turmoil, i've got news for Frank.

Every man's woman in here (i'm sure) knows how to flirt and bat the eyes a little to get things done, whether it be quicker service when you're out, or whatever. So the fact that she's already confiding in her SPOUSE that it's having this much of an affect on her. (1) Frank has gotten horned more times than he would DARE want to know. Or, (2) He's not "taking care of business" at home and she is just looking for an opportunity to horn Frank.... either way, it's not good.

[Slartibartfast]

TL:DR If all else fails... don't be Frank