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Zeppy wrote:Any links to access an abortion in Trinidad?
Accept the child bro is ah blessingZeppy wrote:Any links to access an abortion in Trinidad?
Zeppy wrote:Any links to access an abortion in Trinidad?
Catastrophist wrote:
you are a murderer
life begins when the sperm fertilizes the egg
you shed innocent blood
you are robbing someone of their chance to have a life
arguments can be made for not being able to take care of the kids or better not bring them up in this cruel world
you can't see the future
your parents granted you your chance at life
you wouldn't be here if they aborted you
albeit i can't tell you what to do but i will advise to think about it a little more
cheers
timelapse wrote:If is rape, no problem in my book. Or if there are early detected serious birth defects
Yep , dem ting self.WTF I would be keeping a rapist's child?bluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:If is rape, no problem in my book. Or if there are early detected serious birth defects
https://aleteia.org/2018/05/08/man-conc ... rting-him/
https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-42055511
timelapse wrote:Yep , dem ting self.WTF I would be keeping a rapist's child?bluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:If is rape, no problem in my book. Or if there are early detected serious birth defects
https://aleteia.org/2018/05/08/man-conc ... rting-him/
https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-42055511
My parents.Both of them wanted to copulate willingly.Nobody got rapedbluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:Yep , dem ting self.WTF I would be keeping a rapist's child?bluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:If is rape, no problem in my book. Or if there are early detected serious birth defects
https://aleteia.org/2018/05/08/man-conc ... rting-him/
https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-42055511
Who gave you life?
timelapse wrote:My parents.Both of them wanted to copulate willingly.Nobody got rapedbluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:Yep , dem ting self.WTF I would be keeping a rapist's child?bluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:If is rape, no problem in my book. Or if there are early detected serious birth defects
https://aleteia.org/2018/05/08/man-conc ... rting-him/
https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-42055511
Who gave you life?
bluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:My parents.Both of them wanted to copulate willingly.Nobody got rapedbluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:Yep , dem ting self.WTF I would be keeping a rapist's child?bluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:If is rape, no problem in my book. Or if there are early detected serious birth defects
https://aleteia.org/2018/05/08/man-conc ... rting-him/
https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-42055511
Who gave you life?
LOL. Not they did not! They were just the vessels used.
https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/ar ... pe/357314/
None of us said we wanted to come here. At least none who could remember.
Every life, regardless of how it is conceived, is sacred. I know rape is the most difficult of all. No one knows what that child will grow up to be. Do we have a right to kill the living unborn because of how they were conceived?
There's that, and some cases where a birth defect can cause a lifetime of pain for the child.Tough choice for the parents.bluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:My parents.Both of them wanted to copulate willingly.Nobody got rapedbluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:Yep , dem ting self.WTF I would be keeping a rapist's child?bluefete wrote:timelapse wrote:If is rape, no problem in my book. Or if there are early detected serious birth defects
https://aleteia.org/2018/05/08/man-conc ... rting-him/
https://www.bbc.com/news/stories-42055511
Who gave you life?
LOL. Not they did not! They were just the vessels used.
https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/ar ... pe/357314/
None of us said we wanted to come here. At least none who could remember.
Every life, regardless of how it is conceived, is sacred. I know rape is the most difficult of all. No one knows what that child will grow up to be. Do we have a right to kill the living unborn because of how they were conceived?
DMan7 wrote:This is something that should've happened in the 60's. This country has too much people with few resources to support them.
solarkh wrote:Is it only men discussing abortion on this thread? I’m guessing the rights and decisions are on this is not up to the woman themselves.
bluefete wrote:DMan7 wrote:This is something that should've happened in the 60's. This country has too much people with few resources to support them.
If that is the case, close yuh damn legs. We not talking about rape here.
DMan7 wrote:bluefete wrote:DMan7 wrote:This is something that should've happened in the 60's. This country has too much people with few resources to support them.
If that is the case, close yuh damn legs. We not talking about rape here.
We've already established that human beings can't control their own behavior that's why we need mandates to control it for them. I always tell people if there is one thing that should've had a law it would've been how much children a family should have. This places the greatest burden on society in many many different areas of life.
88sins wrote:Catastrophist wrote:
you are a murderer
life begins when the sperm fertilizes the egg
you shed innocent blood
you are robbing someone of their chance to have a life
arguments can be made for not being able to take care of the kids or better not bring them up in this cruel world
you can't see the future
your parents granted you your chance at life
you wouldn't be here if they aborted you
albeit i can't tell you what to do but i will advise to think about it a little more
cheers
Why some people don't learn to keep their useless self-righteous opinions to themselves I'll never know. The guy asks how to find something, and you jump in with your opinion that is as useless to his question as an anus on an elbow, as though someone asked you for it.
Everyone has one life to live, and have to make the best choices that they can in their life as is available to them and suits their situation.
Your argument that he can't see the future holds little merit, because neither can you. Suppose his kid grows up to be a serial rapist/murderer or another menace to society, and several people in your family end up his victims? You cool with that progeny potentially harming dozens or even hundreds of people for the sake of your misguided beliefs? And if the fetus is born with several defects that negatively impact its quality and duration of life and requires hundreds of thousands of dollars to treat that the parents don't have, you paying for the medical expenses? Or you happy knowing that an infant will suffer in constant pain and difficulty for a few years before dying and traumatizing the parents and the rest of their family?
I believe that termination of a pregnancy is a thing that people have to decide on for themselves. But also that it should be controlled and not have people thinking that it's an access to an easy way to escape responsibility for the consequences of their own actions. If yuh ready for sex, then you are ready for the consequences, and that abortion should be considered an option if the consequences are unexpected and beyond the parents ability to control, such as for medical reasons, eg. carrying the pregnancy to term may harm or kill the mother, or if the fetus will be born with serious deficiencies and defects that will cause it endless suffering and insurmountable difficulties for the duration of its existence.
Zeppy wrote:Can anyone recommend any pharmacies that are currently selling cytotec?
88sins wrote:So catastrophe, you fraid to answer the questions or sumn?
You paying the medical bills for them? You mentioned having a disabled sibling, and that's all fine and dandy. But you personally were not solely and entirely responsible for the physical and mental and financial upkeep of your sibling, so you have no true idea of how difficult it can be, and it gets significantly more difficult if one parent can't handle it and abandons the family.
You cool with the kid growing up into a monster and dispatching half your family? I don't think you would be.
You know it have people willing to adopt, and that's verytrue. But did you know that there are just as many people who rather spend all they have trying to conceive their own and don't want to adopt? Adoption isn't guaranteed.
You claim abortion is an "absolute no". Might be absolute, to you, and that's where it stops. That won't stop people from looking for and finding a way to have it done.
People have to live their own lives, and make their own choices, and live with those choices and the consequences.
Imagine you were female and got pregnant from being raped.Imagine having a walking talking reminder of getting raped every single day, every minute, every second...bluefete wrote:88sins wrote:So catastrophe, you fraid to answer the questions or sumn?
You paying the medical bills for them? You mentioned having a disabled sibling, and that's all fine and dandy. But you personally were not solely and entirely responsible for the physical and mental and financial upkeep of your sibling, so you have no true idea of how difficult it can be, and it gets significantly more difficult if one parent can't handle it and abandons the family.
You cool with the kid growing up into a monster and dispatching half your family? I don't think you would be.
You know it have people willing to adopt, and that's verytrue. But did you know that there are just as many people who rather spend all they have trying to conceive their own and don't want to adopt? Adoption isn't guaranteed.
You claim abortion is an "absolute no". Might be absolute, to you, and that's where it stops. That won't stop people from looking for and finding a way to have it done.
People have to live their own lives, and make their own choices, and live with those choices and the consequences.
THIS. But there is very little discussion about the trauma caused by those consequences.
I remember many years ago, a lecturer was talking about abortion in a class and a female student got up and walked out.
Turns out she had recently had an abortion and the discussion caused her some trauma because of the decision she made.
timelapse wrote:Imagine you were female and got pregnant from being raped.Imagine having a walking talking reminder of getting raped every single day, every minute, every second...
I personally knew two girls that got raped in their early teens.It is one of the most heinous acts that can be done to a person.
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