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kes_vtec wrote:ok so you removed my post...
if you did not understand then i will say it a other way...
too many times we have friends, and don't really know what is goin on with them, they say odd things and we just put it a side, if we really take the time and listen to the ppl we have around us, and give them some time, even if it is a minute, our our world will be better, before his sister, made her post, i had no clue, but i did know that something use there, but did nothing, "when next i see him i will talk tuh him"... i siad to myself
Trinidad is too small for anyone to feel alone and feel that there is no point.
so let us lean from the this ppl...
again:
Stephan, i am sorry, but i did learn, sadly the hard way. there should always be hope, no matter how small.
And onless it is a family member and ASK to delete my post...
then just ban me from the site onetime...
as you have no regard for the finer points of LIFE...
StephansSister wrote:bluespeed wrote:Ok, i understand everything the sister saying about his depression, but their is a bigger picture here....... a man doesn't buy a gun to kill himself!....
Depression + Gun= other dead ppl......I hope you guy see the seriousness of this?.......
by the way........was he the holder of a FUL? ......or was he a member of the protective services?
How do you mean a man doesn't buy a gun to kill himself and depression and a gun = other dead people.
You mean to tell me no one in this world ever bought a gun to kill themselves? Or that every depressed person with a gun is a threat to other people? Do some research, gather your statistics then post things like this. You must be a professional psychologist!
And he was an intelligent person and premeditated his death, deciding his method to kill himself. Based on another victim of depression and suicide that he related to, a gun was his choice as that person also used a gun. Not all indians drink gramazone (sp) when they are suicidal!
bluespeed wrote:StephansSister wrote:bluespeed wrote:Ok, i understand everything the sister saying about his depression, but their is a bigger picture here....... a man doesn't buy a gun to kill himself!....
Depression + Gun= other dead ppl......I hope you guy see the seriousness of this?.......
by the way........was he the holder of a FUL? ......or was he a member of the protective services?
How do you mean a man doesn't buy a gun to kill himself and depression and a gun = other dead people.
You mean to tell me no one in this world ever bought a gun to kill themselves? Or that every depressed person with a gun is a threat to other people? Do some research, gather your statistics then post things like this. You must be a professional psychologist!
And he was an intelligent person and premeditated his death, deciding his method to kill himself. Based on another victim of depression and suicide that he related to, a gun was his choice as that person also used a gun. Not all indians drink gramazone (sp) when they are suicidal!
lady, i will leave you to grieve...
StephansSister wrote:I apologise for that and it's uncalled for. I was just pointing out that steriotyping is not to be applied to every situation. Just as that is a stereotype that is inaccurate, likewise the one about guns.
fafrumlosin wrote:does it really matter if the gun was legal or not? i personally know stephan from back in the day he was a year below me in st anthonys always a cool kid. its never an easy thing when a person takes their life and i am speaking from experience. in the end all that matters is that the living are taken care of where he has gone none of us here can venture untill our time. RIP my friend i hope you may find happiness.
fafrumlosin wrote:does it really matter if the gun was legal or not? i personally know stephan from back in the day he was a year below me in st anthonys always a cool kid. its never an easy thing when a person takes their life and i am speaking from experience. in the end all that matters is that the living are taken care of where he has gone none of us here can venture untill our time. RIP my friend i hope you may find happiness.
Hook wrote:If you know of anyone who may be thinking of taking their own life, do your part to help find other paths out of despair. Don't let them go down this road. I'm sure you won't be having a fun time fending off negative comments as seen in this thread.
Hook wrote:I don't even know why this thread ended back up here *stewps*
Death is death, regardless of by whose hands is it dispensed. Whether you thought he was a cool dude or not, any self-respecting human being would not speak ill of the dead.
SW clearly was battling his own demons and felt there was no other way out, this is NOT for us to decide or discuss since any points raised would be moot anyway...the deed has already been done.
However, the bottom line is that regardless of character, someone is grieving, someone suffered a loss, someone's hurting really bad right now, despite what some of you may think of the man.
Let's not lose sight of that.
If you know of anyone who may be thinking of taking their own life, do your part to help find other paths out of despair. Don't let them go down this road. I'm sure you won't be having a fun time fending off negative comments as seen in this thread.
sharda lalla wrote:if anyone is really interested with the funeral you can contact me at 7766756
and all those who are willing to give a lil "fast car" kind of parade for his funeral i will really appreciate a lot cause i know how much he loved cars
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