A question about religion and relationships

Sky · Postby **Sky** » January 15th, 2009, 2:16 pm

^^ And does this have any limitations as opposed to being born into the religion?

eurogirl · Postby **eurogirl** » January 15th, 2009, 2:17 pm

Sky wrote:
soundboy101 wrote:So tell me you judging islam by the action of men, if so then i hope you do the same for the other religions, and i wish someone can show me where in the Quran or the Statements of Prophet Muhammad PBUH that muslims are ordered to cleanse the earth of no believers, and why would you say something and then say dont quote you, thats cowardly. if you or anyone wants explanation about anything within islam, feel free to ask, but dont do so, with all kind of sinical remarks, and no objectivity, its clear to me that a lot of people hear are ignorant of the teachings of Islam, and just making comments with no proof or support.

I said don't quote me because THAT IS HOW THEY DOES GET ON!!! READ NAH, READ!! And yes I AM ignorant to the teachings of Islam, that's why I admitted my limited understanding and then ASKED SOMETHING!!! Instead of trying to teach something, you jump on my case. And I wonder why millions of people see you guys as radical

pfft

jihad you 8-)

ray d saint · Postby **ray d saint** » January 15th, 2009, 2:18 pm

soundboy101

In Islam a muslim man is to marry a woman, no matter white, black, arab, non arab, the only exception is through taqwaa(piety and obedience to Allah).

Christians do not fall in dat exception my boy.

soundboy101 · Postby **soundboy101** » January 15th, 2009, 2:18 pm

well if thats how you ask a question, i am so sorry, you alone know your intentions, you asked something and just threw in a few stupid comments why? Personaly i dont care how people look at me, once in the eyes of my lord i think i am doing what is pleasing to him,

soundboy101 · Postby **soundboy101** » January 15th, 2009, 2:28 pm

@ ray 786 so the ayat of the Quran i qoted for you this is not enough proof for you, i am sorry my brother if this is not clear, by the way i am muslim, not a Scholar but rather a Student of knowledge, still pursuing my studies in Islamic Theology, so when i speak i dont speak on what some imam told me or what i heard or what i saw on BBC or CNN, but rather what is in the Quran or from the sayings of Muhammad PBUH

Sky · Postby **Sky** » January 15th, 2009, 2:57 pm

And she that part takes of the ground fowl dipped in eleven herbs and spices shall be cursed with waste around her womb, for she is unclean and it shall be shown. And he that eats of her loins shall be chastised by his brothers, for he hath bowed. (Isiah chap 3 ver. 11)

Aye look I quote the bible. It HAS to be the truth because I said it on the internet. No need for confirmation from other christians tho 8-)

JBL · Postby **JBL** » January 15th, 2009, 3:16 pm

SR wrote:
cute corolla wrote:i grew up in a similar situation with my father being muslim and mom hindu, however he has had no problems with us going temple

but when this guy said, if we get married, i have to stop going temple and our kids are to also go to mosque, i was like WTF (just in my head)

he is correct being a muslim

the woman msut follow the husbands religion

if you dont like it

get ah next man

yup.. jus like how hindu's have their own belief... muslims have theirs... and in the muslim religion.. its not apropriate to marry out of the religion

Postby **AllTrac** » January 15th, 2009, 3:35 pm

lola.308 wrote:
1. i never knew you could be converted into Hinduism. since when and let me know how please.

oh gord gyal, now just let honda hoe teach yuh how to saekay de roti and we set!!! :oops:

apple · Postby **apple** » January 15th, 2009, 5:28 pm

religion doh have to matter so much unless the people involved are die hards....plus.....if the bed sweet..... :!:

honda hoe · Postby **honda hoe** » January 15th, 2009, 9:29 pm

AllTrac wrote:
lola.308 wrote:
1. i never knew you could be converted into Hinduism. since when and let me know how please.

oh gord gyal, now just let honda hoe teach yuh how to saekay de roti and we set!!!

i lent my neighbor the tawa for she daughter matikur (sp?) las week an i aint get it back yet

Postby **M_2NR** » January 15th, 2009, 9:58 pm

Lord.. why all these threads always end up with a setta muslim fighting

Gorsh

THE SYNDICATE · Postby **THE SYNDICATE** » January 16th, 2009, 7:45 am

(...Rovin...) wrote:
cute corolla wrote:i grew up in a similar situation with my father being muslim and mom hindu, however he has had no problems with us going temple

but when this guy said, if we get married, i have to stop going temple and our kids are to also go to mosque, i was like WTF (just in my head)

dat looking like rel future horrors , d mere fact u saying dat in ur head already speaks volumes

some couples allow each other to practice their own religion & when d kids grow up they choose what they feel is best

i say to drop he like ah hot aloo & find another guy .....

Bro can't u see that this girl clearly like the fella and will do anything for him.She had already made up her mind before she posted this topic.

She will not leave the fella for what reason i have no clue,and it looks like she prepared to take everything he throws at her even the seven wife s. . .t and all.
so later down the line when she have her children and licks sharing cause he sharing lolo all over the place, it's no one's fault but her own cause she already knew what she was getting herself into in the first place.

her so called boyfriend/husband told her so in the beginning before anything ever started!

my$0.02

rodfarva · Postby **rodfarva** » January 16th, 2009, 10:04 am

cute corolla wrote:Should religion get between relationships, more so a marriage?

Bearing in mind, both parties are strict believers in their own religion, however the guy insists that the girl must convert/practise his religion if they are to get married?

What must the girl do?

plz discuss maturely, thanks.

Seems simple. The girl, is a "strict believer" in her religion. The Man is a "strict believer' in his religion.
Thus, neither will convert.
However, the man requires that the woman convert.

A truly strict believer would never convert. Because that person believes that their religion is the correct way to live and that living any other way is not the correct way for them.

So simple.. seems the relationship should end.

If the woman converts to suit the man or vice versa, then that person can not be considered a strict believer in his/her religion.

THE SYNDICATE wrote:She had already made up her mind before she posted this topic.

I Agree with your opinion there!

urabus · Postby **urabus** » January 16th, 2009, 10:16 am

THE SYNDICATE wrote:She had already made up her mind before she posted this topic.

that's not entirely true

eurogirl · Postby **eurogirl** » January 16th, 2009, 2:23 pm

THE SYNDICATE wrote:
(...Rovin...) wrote:
cute corolla wrote:i grew up in a similar situation with my father being muslim and mom hindu, however he has had no problems with us going temple

but when this guy said, if we get married, i have to stop going temple and our kids are to also go to mosque, i was like WTF (just in my head)

dat looking like rel future horrors , d mere fact u saying dat in ur head already speaks volumes

some couples allow each other to practice their own religion & when d kids grow up they choose what they feel is best

i say to drop he like ah hot aloo & find another guy .....

Bro can't u see that this girl clearly like the fella and will do anything for him.She had already made up her mind before she posted this topic.

She will not leave the fella for what reason i have no clue,and it looks like she prepared to take everything he throws at her even the seven wife s. . .t and all.
so later down the line when she have her children and licks sharing cause he sharing lolo all over the place, it's no one's fault but her own cause she already knew what she was getting herself into in the first place.

her so called boyfriend/husband told her so in the beginning before anything ever started!

my$0.02

Soooooooo tht means she could horn him too and have a lil boy toy name rodrigo ?

nice better reason to geh married a freaky cabana boy as a nice side dish yum yum :wink:

Postby **r3iXmann** » January 16th, 2009, 2:29 pm

THE SYNDICATE wrote:
(...Rovin...) wrote:
cute corolla wrote:i grew up in a similar situation with my father being muslim and mom hindu, however he has had no problems with us going temple

but when this guy said, if we get married, i have to stop going temple and our kids are to also go to mosque, i was like WTF (just in my head)

dat looking like rel future horrors , d mere fact u saying dat in ur head already speaks volumes

some couples allow each other to practice their own religion & when d kids grow up they choose what they feel is best

i say to drop he like ah hot aloo & find another guy .....

Bro can't u see that this girl clearly like the fella and will do anything for him.She had already made up her mind before she posted this topic.

She will not leave the fella for what reason i have no clue,and it looks like she prepared to take everything he throws at her even the seven wife s. . .t and all.
so later down the line when she have her children and licks sharing cause he sharing lolo all over the place, it's no one's fault but her own cause she already knew what she was getting herself into in the first place.

her so called boyfriend/husband told her so in the beginning before anything ever started!

my$0.02

yeah,is so dem woman chuppid 8-)

MG Man · Postby **MG Man** » January 16th, 2009, 2:35 pm

cute corolla wrote:Should religion get between relationships, more so a marriage?

Bearing in mind, both parties are strict believers in their own religion, however the guy insists that the girl must convert/practise his religion if they are to get married?

What must the girl do?

plz discuss maturely, thanks.

the girl must offer anal freely...........

TK! · Postby **TK!** » January 16th, 2009, 2:47 pm

Postby **Greypatch** » January 16th, 2009, 2:52 pm

90+% of all interreligious marriges end up in stress...

when de dust settles sheit always happens...

love is not everything...but alluh does be to chupid to realise dat during that period

Postby **Greypatch** » January 16th, 2009, 2:55 pm

fact when it comes to marrige FEW muslims bend to accomadate the other party

be it man or woman...

as said by balhead b4 the woman should follow the man.

but it have plenty crunts who feel dais is de only pucci dem guh get..

Postby **M_2NR** » January 16th, 2009, 3:26 pm

ah hear anal haram

MG Man · Postby **MG Man** » January 16th, 2009, 3:36 pm

if man and woman cya agree on ah wedding / religious tolerance b4 dey get marrid, it nah go wukk.........worse when de de debate over wot de chirren go be start......and dem some ppl does hadda please dey parents too.........but for any woman eager to please ah prospective husband who bein difficult, anal is always a bonus........and if de man say nah, he eh in dat, find ah beter man.............ent Patch?

apple · Postby **apple** » January 16th, 2009, 3:37 pm

MG Man wrote:if man and woman cya agree on ah wedding / religious tolerance b4 dey get marrid, it nah go wukk.........worse when de de debate over wot de chirren go be start......and dem some ppl does hadda please dey parents too.........but for any woman eager to please ah prospective husband who bein difficult, anal is always a bonus........and if de man say nah, he eh in dat, find ah beter man.............ent Patch?

yuh tork gud dey!

Postby **AllTrac** » January 16th, 2009, 4:42 pm

apple wrote:
MG Man wrote:if man and woman cya agree on ah wedding / religious tolerance b4 dey get marrid, it nah go wukk.........worse when de de debate over wot de chirren go be start......and dem some ppl does hadda please dey parents too.........but for any woman eager to please ah prospective husband who bein difficult, anal is always a bonus........and if de man say nah, he eh in dat, find ah beter man.............ent Patch?

yuh tork gud dey!

send him ah pm, he looking for wife to marrid

MG Man · Postby **MG Man** » January 16th, 2009, 4:46 pm

dammit trac, youh forget to endorse de anallity clause

Postby **AllTrac** » January 16th, 2009, 4:52 pm

apple, as per mg mans request, are you a willing subject for anal after marriage? you can choose whichever religion you want tho.

apple · Postby **apple** » January 16th, 2009, 5:40 pm

hmmm.....ah cud chose meh relay-jun?

in that case...how you feel about polygamy??

Peanut Punch · Postby **Peanut Punch** » January 16th, 2009, 9:47 pm

i'm hindu,.. the hubby is muslim ... just respect each religion & be cultured about it ... if you got ur hubby or wife a certain way,.. why change them?? u don't buy a white car just to paint it black rite? :fadein: