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soundboy101 wrote:And thats the thing, it all depends if you are a true believer and follower of the pillars of your religion or you is a muslim, or hindu or christian by name, and do as you choose. As for the person who said her boyfirend is muslim and she is a practicing hindu, and they going all honky dory, well, my dear your boyfriend needs to learn a lot about his own religion, because the two has so many conflicting beliefs and laws, if he was serious about following the word of his lord, then it could never work. Christianity and Islam is much closer, and hence the reason why permision is given to a muslim man to marry a christian girl, once she is chaste and belives in the oneness of God however it is prefered to marry withing ones faith. All this talk about compromise, how can you compromise the laws of god and you trivialise the things about children saying that you two can come to a compromise, that is nonsense, if you truly belive that god is the one in control, and it is he who gave you the guidelines to live by, then you shouldnt think that you know better than him, and say we will compromise , By the way can someone covert to hinduism?
crazybalhead wrote:soundboy101 wrote:And thats the thing, it all depends if you are a true believer and follower of the pillars of your religion or you is a muslim, or hindu or christian by name, and do as you choose. As for the person who said her boyfirend is muslim and she is a practicing hindu, and they going all honky dory, well, my dear your boyfriend needs to learn a lot about his own religion, because the two has so many conflicting beliefs and laws, if he was serious about following the word of his lord, then it could never work. Christianity and Islam is much closer, and hence the reason why permision is given to a muslim man to marry a christian girl, once she is chaste and belives in the oneness of God however it is prefered to marry withing ones faith. All this talk about compromise, how can you compromise the laws of god and you trivialise the things about children saying that you two can come to a compromise, that is nonsense, if you truly belive that god is the one in control, and it is he who gave you the guidelines to live by, then you shouldnt think that you know better than him, and say we will compromise , By the way can someone covert to hinduism?
Tell them soundbwoy. That is why I will only marrid a real Muslim girl.
badart wrote:i think ppl shud marry into their own religion because obviously they wud be more compatible and their lifestyles wud be similar..rarely do these types of relationships work out where the ppl involved are in the different religions..at the beginin it isnt a problem because they dont make it a problem but when they settle down n thin these slight differences cause alot of problems especially when the children arrive
Sumana.00 wrote:badart wrote:i think ppl shud marry into their own religion because obviously they wud be more compatible and their lifestyles wud be similar..rarely do these types of relationships work out where the ppl involved are in the different religions..at the beginin it isnt a problem because they dont make it a problem but when they settle down n thin these slight differences cause alot of problems especially when the children arrive
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crazybalhead wrote:Sumana.00 wrote:badart wrote:i think ppl shud marry into their own religion because obviously they wud be more compatible and their lifestyles wud be similar..rarely do these types of relationships work out where the ppl involved are in the different religions..at the beginin it isnt a problem because they dont make it a problem but when they settle down n thin these slight differences cause alot of problems especially when the children arrive
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Sumana, you married???
cute corolla wrote:i grew up in a similar situation with my father being muslim and mom hindu, however he has had no problems with us going temple
but when this guy said, if we get married, i have to stop going temple and our kids are to also go to mosque, i was likeWTF (just in my head)
streak wrote:Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem
make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really important.
It's unfair for the person who has his beliefs to conform to another religion. Although most relationships work out where the people are of different religion. I think is a disaster when the other party want you to convert.
You have to remember religion is a man made thing and people should learn to put their differences behind them.
streak wrote:Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem
make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really important.
It's unfair for the person who has his beliefs to conform to another religion. Although most relationships work out where the people are of different religion. I think is a disaster when the other party want you to convert.
You have to remember religion is a man made thing and people should learn to put their differences behind them.
lola.308 wrote:soundboy101, that's all? no water? no congregational input? wow. so i could do that in my living room right now and i'm a muslim?![]()
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cool
Soundwave wrote:even marrying outside of your country does be real trouble too, I knew this chinese guy once who married a girl from mongolia, when they were building their house every time the poor fella put up a wall that girl would come and mash it down...
lola.308 wrote:
1. i never knew you could be converted into Hinduism. since when and let me know how please.
soundboy101 wrote:@ ray 786, please i dont have to prove anything about my knowledge of islam to you or anyone, and the person who decides whom you marry is your lord, creator, whomever you follow, since he knows whats best for you, and since when because something is done by plenty people, this is a justification that its going to work for you or its right, I hope most of the people who are commenting here are married and can talk from personal experience.
(lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time…’ [al-Maa’idah 5:5]
Sky wrote:Soundwave wrote:even marrying outside of your country does be real trouble too, I knew this chinese guy once who married a girl from mongolia, when they were building their house every time the poor fella put up a wall that girl would come and mash it down...
Too high
lola.308 wrote:
1. i never knew you could be converted into Hinduism. since when and let me know how please.
Ent. Thas de real flick!soundboy101 wrote:@ ray 786, please i dont have to prove anything about my knowledge of islam to you or anyone, and the person who decides whom you marry is your lord, creator, whomever you follow, since he knows whats best for you, and since when because something is done by plenty people, this is a justification that its going to work for you or its right, I hope most of the people who are commenting here are married and can talk from personal experience.
(lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time…’ [al-Maa’idah 5:5]
Can someone from this faith confirm this? Because from my understanding, These people are to cleanse the earth of the infidels ( non believers, including christians) ( And doh quote me, thas how they does get on, not here tho)
Now if this is the status quot, how can they get married to christian women, chast or not. And what else does that mean? Hindu women does brush down de place before marriage?
soundboy101 wrote:So tell me you judging islam by the action of men, if so then i hope you do the same for the other religions, and i wish someone can show me where in the Quran or the Statements of Prophet Muhammad PBUH that muslims are ordered to cleanse the earth of no believers, and why would you say something and then say dont quote you, thats cowardly. if you or anyone wants explanation about anything within islam, feel free to ask, but dont do so, with all kind of sinical remarks, and no objectivity, its clear to me that a lot of people hear are ignorant of the teachings of Islam, and just making comments with no proof or support.
lola.308 wrote:soundboy101, that's all? no water? no congregational input? wow. so i could do that in my living room right now and i'm a muslim?![]()
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but yes. can someone please tell me how i become a hindu![]()
i thought you were born a hindu and that was no other way
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