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BANzai Rastafarai wrote:
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jetta wrote:My problem is that after being alone for some years l am now in a relationship with a man who l have known for many years as a friend. Before we got together, and at the beginning of our relationship, things were going well. In less than five months of the relationship, this man changed so much that I no longer wish to be with him and have told him so and why.
He does not say much now, but he feels that I am 'spoilt' and being 'picky' and he is offended and angry when I say anything about his behaviour. He is a sociable man with many friends and family. He mixes well and gets on with my family and friends. At the same time, he is quiet and private. He works hard and no two days are the same. His children are grown and the last relationships he had before me ended because he was cheated on. He is not all bad, but his change in behaviour towards our relationship belittles the good things that he does.
I am a mature woman and I have had long-term relationships. My children are grown and I am independent and I am a professional. I am not asking or looking for any more than we had in the early stages of our relationship. He was considerate and there was communication. He took me out and we would go walking. He would send me messages by text and he treated me with respect. Now, I feel I am being taken for granted. He has me now, so he no longer makes any effort.
I have asked if he has any problems or changed his mind about us and he says that he is contented and that he loves me. I explained how I feel and that I do not see any benefit in us being together as it is now all one-sided. I suggested perhaps we spend too much time together (we live together) but he said no and he does not want to change anything. The biggest problem l have with him is that he no longer communicates with me. He no longer says when he is going to work or going out or when to expect him.
Sex has gone from several times a week to once every other month on average. He does not take me out like before and if he does invite me out, it is an hour before he goes through the door. I find his whole attitude deceiving and disrespectful. On different occasions I have told him how I felt and given examples of his change in behaviour.
Now I find myself getting angry and arguing with him. I do not like this behaviour in me. I don't discuss anything socially with him anymore and I no longer have sex (since December) with him as it is only when he decides. He will question me but cannot answer the same questions when I ask.
At times I feel that I hate him, not just because things have not worked out, but because he won't admit our relationship is not working and move on.
What do I do?
Hook wrote:Chulbul Pandey
stev wrote:Spiderman webshooter style....middle + ring finger inside and move up and down...not in and out....use thumb for clitoral stimulation.
Mr. Red Sleeper wrote:stev wrote:Spiderman webshooter style....middle + ring finger inside and move up and down...not in and out....use thumb for clitoral stimulation.
If so then Penis, what do i do with my tongue then??
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